TWO SINGLE MEN I HAVE VISITED AND CHATTED WITH, MANY OTHERS I HAVE MET ON DIFFERENT PLATFORMS.

THEY ALL WANT TO MARRY A WOMAN LIKE THEIR MOTHER. YOU CAN AGREE WITH ME THAT MAJORITY OF US GREW UP IN A PROPER ZAMBIAN FAMILY, WE SAW HOW OUR FATHERS AND OUR MOTHERS RELATED AND WE GREW UP TAKING THAT LIFESTYLE AS THE ONLY PROPER ONE.

MOST OF US GREW UP SEEING OUR MOTHERS DOING THINGS LIKE WASHING, COOKING, CLEANING ETC AND OUR FATHERS WERE AWAY WORKING AND BRINGING MONEY HOME FOR FOOD, SCHOOL FEES ETC. IN MOST CASES OUR MOTHERS DID NOT WORK.

BUT TIMES HAVE CHANGED, MOST WOMEN THESE DAYS WORK. IF YOU RE GOING TO LOOK FOR A WOMAN TO MARRY WHO IS GOING TO TREAT YOU THE WAY YOUR MOTHER TREATED YOUR FATHER THEN BE WILLING TO GET A FULL TIME HOUSE WIFE.

IF YOU ARE GOING TO MARRY A WOMAN WHO WORKS THEN SOME HOUSE CHORES WILL NOT BE HANDLED BY HER, MOST OF THOSE HOUSE CHORES WILL BE HANDLED BY THE MAID.

THIS WAS AGREED. BUT, BIG BUT, IT DOESNT MATTER WHETHER THE WIFE WORKS OR NOT THE CLEANILINESS OF HER HUSBAND BELONGS TO HER. I DONT WANT SOME CHAP WITH SOME WESTERN CULTURE TO COME AND INTERFERE IN OUR RICH CULTURE.

THOSE WOMEN WHO WANT TO GET MARRIED TO MEN WITH WESTERN CULTURE LET THEM START FREQUENTING PLACES WHERE WHITE MEN ARE FOUND KAPENA BANGAPEZEKO MUZUNGU OBAKWATILA.

OVER 90% OF ZAMBIAN MEN WANT TO MARRY WOMEN WHO ARE ZAMBIAN CULTURED, THIS IS THE REASON WHY MOST OF SINGLE MEN ARE STILL SINGLE BECAUSE THEY HAVE FAILED TO FIND WOMEN LIKE THEIR MOTHER. Luis Kasongo , Mwaba Mutale CAN AGREE WITH ME.

HOWEVER, WHAT EVER A PERSON WANTS IT COMES AT A COST. IF YOU WANT A WIFE LIKE YOUR MOTHER THEN BE WILLING TO ALSO BE LIKE YOUR FATHER, PROVIDE FOR YOUR FAMILY, PROTECT YOUR FAMILY WITHOUT DEMANDING YOUR WIFE'S CONTRIBUTION.

SOMETIMES YOUR WIFE COULD BE GETTING MORE MONEY THAN YOU AND SETTLES MOST BILLS AT HOME THIS DOES NOT MEAN ITS HER DUTY, ITS YOUR DUTY BUT BECAUSE YOU RE NOT ABLE SHE IS HELPING YOU, AT THE END OF THE DAY THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS THAT THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE MUST CONTINUE TO PROGRESS AND GROW. wedding dresses for short women

ARE WE TOGETHER?